You know what’s missing from your camera roll?
YOU.
If you’re anything like me, you’ve got a camera roll full of gorgeous pictures of your kids, and hubby—but barely any proof that you were there too.
And let’s be real, a quick selfie with your toddler smashing their face against yours (cute, but chaotic) isn’t the only way to make it happen.
But getting in more photos with your kids doesn’t have to be awkward, complicated, or time-consuming!
In fact, it can be fun, easy, and natural!
Here are 6 creative ways to capture those everyday moments with your little ones—without relying on selfies.
Set Up a Timer & Play Together
Instead of staged, stiff smiles, capture real, playful moments with your kids.
What to do:
Prop up your phone or camera on a shelf, a chair, or a tripod.
Set the self-timer (10 seconds) or use a burst timer to take multiple photos in a row.
Then, start playing! Have a tickle fight, jump on the bed, or let them tackle you into a pile of pillows.
Pro tip: If your camera has voice control, you can just say “Smile!” or “Capture!” and it will snap photos while you’re in the moment.
This captures natural movement, real laughs, and the way your kids see you—fun, present, and full of love.
Use a Tripod for Everyday Moments
You don’t have to wait for a special moment to get in the frame—everyday life is worth capturing too.
What to do:
Set up a tripod (or use a stack of books as a phone stand) in a spot where you and your kids naturally spend time—like the kitchen, playroom, or couch.
Imagine photos of you and the kids prepping dinner together or doing a puzzle!
Turn on the video mode or use a camera app with a remote shutter.
Pro tip: Set a weekly reminder to take a family photo in a different everyday moment (snuggles, bedtime stories, mealtime).
After a few weeks, you’ll have a beautiful collection of real-life memories.
These are the moments your kids will actually remember—the cozy snuggles, messy playtimes, and bedtime giggles!
Capture Your Reflections
An easy way to get in the photo without setting anything up!
What to do: Look for reflections throughout your day—mirrors, windows, puddles, or even the oven door.
Next time you’re brushing teeth together, playing dress-up, or watching the rain, snap a quick picture of your reflection.
Pro tip: Try a sidewalk puddle reflection at golden hour (right before sunset) for a dreamy, artistic effect.
This is a creative way to be in the frame without needing a tripod or timer!
Hire a Photographer for a “Day in the Life” Session
You deserve to be in your family’s story.
What to do: Find a documentary-style photographer (like me! You can see my galleries here)
Instead of stiff poses, I’ll capture real moments—making breakfast, playing on the floor, or cuddling on the couch.
This removes the stress of setting up your own shots and gives you authentic, emotion-filled photos that tell your family’s real story!
Want to learn more about booking a Hawkes Bay Family session with me? Click here to see my galleries!!
